a crushed grape

A crushed Grape

Young master , ( and chickiepoo ) ok dude I saw it in you the flash of confusion , because dumbass that is what it was , something so fucking fast it has to be the flash of instinctual reactions to her UNHAPPINESS , now dumbass girl ( not often I address the girls directly nor call them dumbass but , girls do this shit , they are not supposed to be around us so much as to become so familiar with us that they think they can interact with us males in causual ways like they would with their peers other girls

She acted as if her male had done something wrong , when in fact she was just making a joke about a flubbed up grape pass that ended up with the grape getting kinda tossed back , batted back actually since her male was not prepped to play grape catch he was to involved in doing something very special for her and her family ….. so when she in he play way started to POUT to act as if she was unhappy even wronged … by the grape being not accepted batted back at her , dropped , crushed when she playfully yet with a tone of voice that an INSTINCTUAL male ID’s as !!! Caution Unahppy Woman that I love !!! he went thru a flash of instinctually programmed levels ,,,, first was to notice his female unhappy , second noticing that he was the cause of the unhappiness , now he went into defensive and attack ….

Young master you are a good man , you do so many good things for your woman and family and especially when you are in the middle of doing something EXTRA special … our logical male mind ,,, a mind not able to process as many emotional stimuli as the female mind can .. when we are already taxed by doing something special for her and the family ,, to be told we are a FAILURE !!! … at that already state of over load emotionally ( whether you accpt your limited male mind or not ) by going out of your way to provide above and beyond the NORM for her and her family …. You are ready to FIGHT

OVER A CRUSHED GRAPE . and inside if the event was not ID’ed like I ID’ed it you would have resented her … for not seeing how much you were already doing ,, she would have resented you for getting uppity about her PLYFULL NESS …. Yo chickiepoo you do not understand the male mind no matter what you think you do ,,, you do not understand us YOU ARE NOT …… US !

When in the 1 on 1 each person is locked into the importance of the other their happiness you take on as your responsibility and EACH OF YOU TRY YOUR BEST … and fail ! 80 % of marriages end either in divorce or disfunction . because of the compounding of dropped grape events ….

The 1 divided by 3 ….. keeps the impposible task of making 1 woman happy …. An unreality a fairy tale .. you get to be just a MALE who you are your DNA and she has others her peers to joke with and talk to when you react like we males normally react .Plus dipshit you have these words no matter how fucked up and offensive you have these words here in print that she has most likely read all or part of for all of you , your 3 her - thier sisterhood to learn from
NOW , On to my other blog the blog I am using to introduce myself to girls I am meeting now acting myself like I was you , you do not have the cover of a book to show you think so you will have to show it some how with wome form of words .

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Simple man –
Ever heard the song girls , from lynard skynard , it talks to most good men … sunday after doing some work on my DIY project for my girl her item my love to provide for her …. After that I went to harvest my wild grapes to make grape jam for the year , now this is not about saving money it is about living life simply ,,,, having natural foods , spending time as a family creating memories …. My 6 year old bly harvested grapes with me …. Out in the bushes hunting high and low . for those tiny groups of grapes …..

Then when we brought our catch our harvest TRUIMPHANTLY into the kitchen , ( the great white hunters feedin the family ) my 17 year old daughter knowing the routine form years past sits with her old man and starts picking grapes off the stem and putting them into the cooking pot , my 17 year stopps her life to be with me and he lil’ brothers , the six year of course proud of the food he has provided helps , and even the 9 year old breaks away from his new birthday present from yesterday a ninetendo machine to help pick grapes , and Debbie she has never done this she sits and cleans the grapes , FAMILY TIME .. no fucking TV RADIO CELL PHONES … just us simple humans doing simple human things

Now this is my idea of living ! you can not purchse this type of recreation you can only CREATE it ! and with each bottle of jelly opened or given away as presents thru out the year ,,,, the bond the memory … well you gott to live it to know it .