mr. wonderful

mr wonderful
young master ,,, ok something else to think about to understand the SUBLTE dynamics of continuing the fight over something that should be as unimportant as money is when a girl has chosen to …live ALTERNATIVELY , she has explored the life ply life style and has chosen it , because the vale and peace NAD SENCE OF …NOW …IS REAL AND GOOD …..
but she wants that child support cash from mar. wonderful …… ah ? why?
the need for his contribution into your ….your territory and family unit ,,is un needed and UN REQUESTED BY YOU …. it is not you fighting about his cash it is EVE who is still FIGHTING ,,, dragging her DEAD CAT of her past , in the form of ANYTHING she can bitch about ,,when the honesty is she does not need his cash ,,,,, in your compound and www.instinctualism.org life …..
look the need for cash is a NOT NEEDED ,,, the idea of her or any of the girls working is more to provide stimulation than it is for the need ….the real need in human life , terms ,,,,not comic slave human life the human who has become DEPENDANDT on the outside world for fulfillment and acceptance and food and etc …but real humans living real DNA living plus having he OP to enjoy all that is available without being ADDICTED or dependant. ….. Mr. wonderfuls cash is a problem actually , it is the cash of the child not of the mom ,,,,,
the child is not our possession and neither is it’s outside possessions ours … they in this case are an Guest who has an outside cash flow , let dad put that into a trust for that child , it is between those two , there is not need to defend the rights of the child , that conflict will play out between those town ,,,, and their truths to each other will develop and their relationship will blossom or suffer based on their interaction ,,,,, NOT YOUR to control …..
or get manipulated into young master ,,, if the girl can not keep Mr. wonderful out of her NOW remember it is her choose ,,,tell her to move on ,,,she will being you and the whole family only pain she DOES NOT GET THE IDEA of peace ! it is beyond where she is right now ,,her want is an ADVENTURE OF PAIN AND SUFFEREING , that is her want evidenced by her own educated choices freely made by her self ,
Mr. wonderful money is unimportant really , if she chooses to live a real life ,,,
ohhh I bumped into another 1 day a week choice for the girls , to have as career wise , that 1 simple day of work , maybe Safe home is not it for her ,,,well there is this chick locally who is a personnel green garder ,,she basically provided the 3 boxes of SFG and charges 20 bucks a week to the client and the client gets flowers and fresh produce organicnally grown and maintained preofessionally ….. at home , not threat of contanimantion like we have from store bought foods ore resturant salads.
and at 20 bucks for a ½ hour of weekly maintances , and crop rotations ,,,, she does not work hard to make her 2 bills plus per day. in about 5 hours ,,,,, it takes only 10 people ,,that is 10 people out of the local 200,000 and you are secure … she one of your girls is secure got her flex cash …. she has everything else provided by you and nature …housing car elelctric food healthinsurance etc etc … now she got 200 win walking around money per week. for soing something she made EXCELL at already ….
ohhh the mister wonderful comes form listening to two women talk inline at the GROC store…. about their EX’s , the husbands compaining about bills m the Childs over hearing it all …. the bashing and complaining about their DADDY ..the judgments and the pain , the degradation of it all , 24/7
nope the EX is a non event , as one of the family counselors recommended for me years ago while I was single parent and the mom was MRS wonderful ….. on one aspect and that was my worrying about whether the mom was ,,mentally aware of the child when the child was with her ,,, and my worrying about my kids safety … and the therapist said ,,,,,,, like the good toast she was ,,,,, when the child leaves your hand , the child is living her own experience now ,,,,, and NOT yours ….. her own adventure …do not worry and if,,,yes if she returns to you then be happy …she is not your possession she is some one you want in your life ,,your invited guest . but when with the EX ….. it is out of your hands literally , so leave her with positive expectations and continue living your own life ….
ahh the NOT bringing the ex. any longer into my current life ,,, leaving the dead cat ..behind me . instead of dragging a rotting memory into my current now to smell and stink up this new life also ….and the underlying reason is , the PROVING YOURSELF right still fighting over new topics about old themes..
you can only bring a horse to water you can not make it drink , but you young master have to build the watering hole ,,,the something different from the NORMAL …… and if you do it in the way that is Debt free first , if your at are in peace with living in the now , day light to day light ,,, forgetting the concept of dates and days outside of the need of looking in a book for one second everyday to see if the rest of the slave world calls to day ,,,TODAY …. a Monday or a Tuesday …. if the slave masters like of the days of pharaoh when they motivated the worker slaves with dreams of the ceremony or HOLY - DAY .. the day off to celebrate what has been done to finally relax ,,,today they give us the hope of GREED work hard and become like us ……. for those who choose to just live they give the HOLY DAYS every few months to keep the slaves working and in debt , because you spend your money on holy days , actually giving it back to the slave master economy which you CHOOSE TO LIVE inside of .and under ,,by default because you have never THOUGHT FOR YOURSELF . about real alternatives.